A little dose of reality
Its Monday afternoon and I am sitting in the study having received the call that my blood tests this morning were normal and I am good to go for tomorrow. I have finished doing a little bit of work and I am reflecting on the last month and what is to come before I participate in my last conference call at 3.00pm. I have reread my posts and agree with Petra that I have been exercising my own level of censorship on what I have been writing.
The truth is sometimes I don’t know why I am writing at all. Is it for you, is it for me or some other purpose. The blog entries do follow to some degree the ebb and flow of my experience but I do agree that I have been emphasising all the good things and doing so in an upbeat and sometime humorous manner. I am not sure if there is anything wrong with that.
So this afternoon I will drop some of the censorship.
In truth this experience is really, really difficult, probably the most confronting experience I have had to deal with in my life to date. Its is both physically and emotionally draining.
It’s relentless.
Physically you decondition, you lose weight, muscle tone and fitness. Your hair thins and is lifeless. Your skin feels drier and cracks as do the membranes in your nose and mouth. The veins in your hands and arms burn, ache and swell. Cuts and scrapes take longer to heal. Your libido disappears and your energy levels fluctuate from extreme lethargy to manageable. The nausea is simply horrid.
Emotionally you fluctuate through various levels of anxiety, depression, boredom, restlessness, anger, frustration, happiness, love, fear and confusion. I am often less tolerant of people and situations. I often just want to be alone. Strangely I seek the company of the others that sit in the big blue chairs. I can feel disconected from those around me, even those I love and who love me.
All in all its pretty crappy.
I don’t think this is a “gift” like I have read about and listened to in audio books etc. I don’t need this shit in my life for me to know what makes me happy or how lucky I am. I just want this to end as quickly as it can.
Thats it.
My Unplanned Sabbatical 